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One of the reasons I waited so long was that as a fly-on-the-wall 'straight' woman, I heard so much bullshit against bi people from other queer folks that I felt completely unwelcome in the queer community. Now we understand one another.'" "I actually just came out to my youngest son a few weeks ago.
I would very much like to be able to love more than one person, but my husband is and wants us to remain strictly monogamous. I think my parents would accept my bisexuality, especially since I'm married to a man and therefore not actually dating women, but they're still busy processing the fact that I'm not Christian.
In a way, marrying a man makes it easy to 'hide.' People just assume you're straight.
I am new to this relationship and still trying to navigate how to move through both worlds.
Sometimes it means passing depending on the context because it's hard to play the role of educator and/or be on the defense all the time.
I never gave myself the chance to think about it because I was safe where I was.
Shortly before I married my husband, I finally left Christianity behind, for many reasons. I was finally able to think about who I really am and what I really believe without some old white guy telling me the 'right' answers and condemning me for any deviance. Part of this was learning that I'm not straight.
I've only ever been with my boyfriend and one woman, so it was a big deal when I wrote down that I was bisexual on that form.
(At least for me; it was the first time I had identified myself in that way.) A year or so later, when I got pregnant, we went back in to the doctor to confirm and after we had heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time, seen that it was a real being, that our lives were about to change, the nurse comes in to do my examination (my boyfriend had left at this point) and tells me in a sly voice, ' I guess we can cross the bisexual off your chart, can't we?
I realized that I was falling in love with one of my female friends (who is also bisexual).Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating